Pengalaman Anak Pertama Korban Perceraian Orang Tua dari Keluarga Ekonomi Rendah: Studi Fenomelogi Dampak Psikologi dan Strategi Koping

Abstract

Parental divorce is a family event that can generate significant psychological impacts on children, particularly first-borns who often bear greater responsibilities within the family. This condition becomes more complex when accompanied by economic constraints. This study aims to describe the lived experiences, psychological impacts, and coping strategies employed by first-born children from low-income families affected by parental divorce. The study adopts a qualitative approach using a phenomenological method. The participants consisted of four first-born children aged 9–12 years at MI Al-Irsyad Al-Islamiyyah Banjarmasin, along with four teachers as supporting informants. Data were collected through in-depth interviews, non-participant observation, and documentation, and were analyzed using Moustakas’ phenomenological model. The findings reveal that children experience prolonged sadness, a sense of loss, difficulties in concentration, and a tendency to suppress emotions. The coping strategies employed include both emotion-focused and problem-focused coping. Social support, religiosity, emotional maturity, and a sense of responsibility serve as facilitating factors, while economic limitations, lack of emotional communication, and social stigma act as barriers.